Cierra Godsey 9/19/26 Cierra Godsey 9/19/26

The Cognitive Dissonance Behind the Lindsay Clancy Debate

I honestly cannot believe how divided the internet is over Lindsay Clancy. I think a huge part of the reaction comes down to cognitive dissonance: people are struggling to reconcile a loving mother with education, money, family support, access to doctors, and something this horrific. Sometimes, when reality is too uncomfortable to sit with, people find another explanation.

Cierra Godsey 7/21/26 Cierra Godsey 7/21/26

Bane’s Story…

In two weeks, it will be one year since I lost Bane. The grief hasn’t gotten smaller, and the questions surrounding what happened still remain. He was only seven years old—the biggest love bug, the biggest pain in the ass, and one of the most loved members of our family. A year later, it feels like it happened yesterday… 💙🐾

Cierra Godsey 2/9/26 Cierra Godsey 2/9/26

Why We’re Not as Divided as We Think… Emotions Blur the Real Issue

Cierra Godsey 1/25/26 Cierra Godsey 1/25/26

The Timeline Doesn’t Lie

He said he was overwhelmed. He said he lost his spark. He said I deserved better.
But the timeline didn’t match the story — so I stopped guessing and started verifying. This is what happened when I chose receipts over excuses.

Cierra Godsey 1/22/26 Cierra Godsey 1/22/26

I’d Rather Be Honest Than Liked

I’ve always been blunt. Not because I’m trying to be mean — but because I’m not going to pretend, I don’t see what’s going on. The older I get, the more I realize: people either love honesty or they hate what it forces them to face.